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Monday, May 05, 2008

Wish List

Ok, I'm very bo pai seh. I'd rather people get me things that I want instead of things that will just sit at a corner.

So here's my wish list. Thanks guys! :)

1) Poker set - the one where you can bring around in a case and has denominators
2) David Jones gift voucher
3) Rhodes and Beckett gift voucher
4) Cufflinks
5) Louis Vuitton luggage bag for me to travel in style - code M23251: PEGASE 50 - no Petaling St imitations (am I being realistic here?)

Ok, what NOT to get me:
1) Ties
2) T-shirts
3) Mugs (yes, I have received mugs before...wtf??)

Thanks guys, and see you at the party! :)

Saturday, April 05, 2008

April is looking to be a good month

April is looking to be a good month. Firstly, I'm really happy that I got a job offer for a position in a multinational pharmaceutical company that I've always wanted. They used to be a client of mine when I was with my previous employer. And that was the position that I've always wanted when I was auditing them. It is a business analyst role. I've always mentioned to my client that the Business Analyst was a really interesting position, and the culture of the company was really good. It was a pity that there was a global directive that they could not hire the auditors of the company.

I was browsing around their website about a month ago and stumbled across the position. Without hesitation, I submitted my CV for their consideration. I got a call about a few days later requesting that I come in for the interview. The ball started rolling. 3 interviews later, they called me last week to tell me that they were delighted to offer me the position at their company, at the package that I requested (which was inflated as I thought they would negotiate it downwards). After much thought and deliberation, I decided to accept the offer, and put in my resignation yesterday. It was a pretty big decision as it meant leaving the Chartered world and moving to the Corporate world. I thought, it's now or never. Opportunities like these don't come very often.

Given that I was only employed for less than a year, my notice period is only a week. Hence, my last date at my current employer would be the coming Friday. I get a week off before commencing at my new employer. I'm really looking forward to the challenges that lie ahead.

Besides the good fortune that has blown towards my professional life, there has been a recent change in the matters of the heart too. I've been back in the dating scene recently and have went out with a few guys. During that time, none of them were what I was looking for. I'm someone who knows (or sorta know) what I want. However, things changed when I met Him last week. We've known each other for a while now, from certain social networking sites. However, circumstances were such that our paths have never crossed so that we would meet properly. He did, however, see me at Sunglass Hut during the Boxing day sales, but I did not recall that (probably because I was busy trying on Prada sunnies!). Very recently, He requested for me to add Him to my Friends List. Now, I never add anyone I've never met to my Friend's list. Having nothing to lose, I told him that and we should meet up, just as friends of course.

We met up and had dinner in the city over the week. When I first saw in person, I was awestruck. His physical appearance was certainly of that which I was attracted to. Tick. Over dinner, we just had this natural bonding that I did not get with the other guys that I've dated. Not wanting the night to end that quickly, I offered to walk him home. We talked even more. I was really interested in Him as a person as well. Another massive tick. After sending him home, I felt really happy, there were butterflies in my tummy, and I had this massive smile on my face (Apologies to the other tram commuters on board #72 towards Camberwell if they thought I was a lunatic). It was a weird feeling as I had not felt this way about someone since a while ago. I decided to follow up with a second date.

The second date involved having drinks at Heaven's Door (cheers to the bartender for shouting Him a drink!). We just got talking and my feelings for him just grew and grew throughout the night. Note that alcohol was not a factor as I am a responsible driver. So I thought, damn, I really want to get to know this guy better. I'm gonna ask him to be my date. So I did. And I'm glad the response was positive. Now, we're seeing each other exclusively. I feel really happy basking in his company. That sinking heart feeling is all awash me again. I'm happy again. I hope that this is the start of something good.

April is looking up for me :)

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

In the Battle Between Bros vs 'Hoes, Who Wins?

2 situations occurred which made me think of this:
1) I asked a close friend if he's ever slept with my ex. He said he definitely has not. His motto is bros over 'hoes. Being a good friend of mine, he'll definitely not cross that boundary irregardless of how horny he is, or whatever temptation lies in front of him.
2) Another friend of mine told me recently that he is interested in someone who I had my eyes on. I kind of like that guy too. So in the battle of bros vs hoes, who wins?
Well, I guess in this, I would definitely let my friend go after the guy. I'd rather keep the friendship than let ruin it over a guy.

Monday, March 17, 2008

The Curse of the Straight Male Friend

Ok, I'm pretty sure most gay men would have gone through a stage where they go gaga over their straight male friend.

I recently met up with a friend of mine after a while and while I always had a crush on him, seeing him again was just flabbergasting. It was like meeting up with a long lost lover after a decade. We've never really been friends, more of acquaintance. We got talking and he's a really nice guy to talk to.

He knows I'm gay and all. But he's still pretty comfortable. When we were talking, at times, I just felt like ripping off his shirt and just having him there and then along the banks of the Yarra. But of course, being the civilised man that I am, I maintained my cool and just strolled along (hand in hand...I wish!).

Well, I guess the gay population can't possibly have ALL the good looking guys. We've gotta give some of the hot men to the ladies.

Ah well, doesn't hurt to fantasise :)

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Love vs Like

Like: A message from him in the morning is read and ignored
Love: A message from him in the morning makes you smile

Like: Him not calling doesn't make a difference to your day
Love: Him not calling makes you worry about him

Like: An arrangement that didn't go as planned is just forgotten
Love: An arrangement that didn't go as planned ruins your day

Like: When you hug, you think of the one you love
Love: When you hug, your heart sinks

Like: Dinner with him is to fill in your time
Love: All your attention is focused upon him at dinner

Like: When you see him, you smile.
Love: When you see him, you smile, your heart melts, and you laugh together

Monday, September 18, 2006

Sydney

Yippee..I'm going to Sydney this weekend. And I've taken Monday off so I can roam around Sydney and wash my eyes with cute Sydney boys (but not touch...).

I've gotten a few suggestions on where to go (from SQ Girl herself). So I may just venture out to Bondi Beach and Bondi Junction. And have Fried Mars Bar. Yummm...heaps better than Kripy Kreme if you ask me.

5 more days...

Thursday, September 07, 2006

You're fired!

Just found out yesterday that the Finance Manager of my last client got fired right after we completed the audit. I was shocked!

I mean, yes, the audit didn’t go as efficiently as it should have, but which ones does? But then again, this has apparently been going on for a while. And when we were out there, he apparently wasn’t looked upon too fondly by his staff (and the Board, who sacked him).

When the CEO came in a few times and asked us whether the audit was running efficiently, I should’ve told him that yes, it was efficient, instead of saying that it wasn’t. Oh dear, I hope I didn’t cost him his job.

My senior manager assured me that it wasn’t from my comments.